About Me

A little about me...

I grew up in a large family, the 2nd of 5 children. I came to Christ when I was sixteen through Young Life.  During college, I became a Young Life Worship Leader. This began my career in Youth Ministry. In 1992, I met and married Jennifer. Jennifer had a similar calling to youth ministry. We became a team ministering to youth and young adults. In 2003, I answered the call to ordained mininstry and earned a MDiv at Regent College.  In 2006, I began parish ministry and transitioned to the Missional Church model. In 2019, after participating in my own IFS therapy, I became a trained IFS Practitioner. I offer Pastoral Counseling & Spiritual Direction as an Internal Family Systems Practitioner. 

I have a passion to see people reconciled to God, themselves and others. IFS therapy is an important tool to help that reconciliation. I have a special calling to those who are mininstry leaders, ordained or lay. I understand life in full-time ministry and the challenges that places on our relationship to God, ourselves and others. I also work with those who have problematic sexual behaviors - the individual and the couple.

As a family, we enjoy time together laughing, exploring and singing. I enjoy running, reading, learning and leading worship. My wife, Jennifer, loves to entertain people, be outside, read, and small groups. Together, we love to encourage couples as they seek a more honest, fulfilling marriage.  We have 5 kids. Three are young adults; Hope is artistic and organized, Paul loves art and digital media, John loves languages and singing. Our last two are still in Homeschool; Alex is very funny and loves to learn, Grace is full of life and loves all animals. The other members of our family are - an old, gentle Aussie Mix named Buddy, a princess Havanese named Lacey, a new Mini-Aussie (who isn't so mini) named Gabriel, and a bunch of fish!